“If you catch {child_name}'s eye and give {him_her} a big smile, do you usually get a smile back?”
Follow-up: “Is smiling-back something {he_she} does easily with you, or does it take warming up?”
Not yet
Rarely smiles back, even when looking at you
Emerging
Occasionally returns a smile
Developing
Usually smiles back when you smile first
Secure
Freely exchanges smiles throughout the day