“While you and {child_name} are chatting, playing, or getting {him_her} dressed, does {he_she} naturally meet your eyes?”
Follow-up: “Is eye contact easy and warm, or does it come and go?”
Not yet
Eye contact is rare even during close interaction
Emerging
Brief glances, mostly during strong interest
Developing
Regular eye contact during play and feeding
Secure
Sustained, comfortable eye contact across daily routines