Emotional Self-Regulation
The ability to manage and modulate emotional responses appropriately to context, including identifying feelings, using coping strategies, and recovering from emotional distress with decreasing adult support.
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Prerequisites
Foundational skill — no prerequisites indexed.
What mastery looks like
Requires consistent adult support to manage emotions; may have frequent intense emotional reactions
- Needs adult comfort for most emotional upsets
- Limited ability to calm self
- Difficulty transitioning between emotional states
Manages mild emotions independently but needs adult support for intense feelings
- Uses some self-soothing strategies with prompting
- Accepts adult comfort and redirection
- Beginning to express emotions in words
Has expanding range of emotion management strategies; seeks adult support mainly for most intense emotions
- Uses coping strategies like deep breathing or positive self-talk
- Expresses feelings appropriately to situation
- Can wait and delay gratification in some contexts
Independently manages most emotions including moderately intense ones; uses varied strategies effectively
- Identifies and names own emotions
- Uses range of coping strategies independently
- Recovers from setbacks with minimal support
- Manages frustration constructively
Demonstrates sophisticated emotional awareness and regulation; can reflect on and adjust emotional responses
- Anticipates emotional triggers and prepares strategies
- Helps others manage emotions
- Reflects on own emotional patterns
- Flexibly adjusts strategies to context
Activities for this (12)
The Patience Game — Wait for It!
A series of fun waiting challenges that build self-regulation and impulse control. Includes waiting for a signal before acting, freeze dance, and resisting temptation. The agent guides the parent through observing the child's ability to delay gratification, follow stop/go rules, and manage impulses in a playful context.
Feelings Charades — Guess the Emotion
Parent and child take turns acting out emotions while the other guesses. The agent guides the game, observes the child's emotion vocabulary, ability to read facial expressions, and empathy understanding. This activity builds emotional literacy through playful, embodied learning.
Puppet Problem Solvers
A playful puppet show activity where {child_name} helps puppet friends solve everyday conflicts using words and peaceful strategies.
Emotion Detective with Feelings Faces
A playful game where you and {child_name} create funny faces to explore different emotions, helping {him_her} recognize and name feelings in a safe, fun way.
Feelings Weather Station
A playful activity where children learn to identify and express emotions through weather metaphors, helping them recognize and manage their feelings.
Tower of Triumph
A fun building challenge that encourages {child_name} to keep trying even when structures fall down, celebrating effort and small successes along the way.
Kitchen Band Feelings Jam
A playful music-making activity where you and {child_name} create sounds with household items, move to different rhythms, and talk about how the music makes you feel.
The Surprise Cookie Jar
A playful waiting game where {child_name} learns to wait for a special treat while engaging in fun activities.
Tower of Patience
A stacking challenge that helps children practice staying calm when things get tricky, building frustration tolerance through playful persistence.
Tower Tumble Triumph
A playful building activity where children experience small setbacks and practice bouncing back with encouragement.
Feeling Faces Treasure Hunt
A playful scavenger hunt where {child_name} finds objects that match different emotion cards, helping {he_she} identify and talk about feelings in a fun, low-pressure way.
Tower Tumble Challenge
A fun building game where we practice staying calm when things don't go as planned
Formal assessments
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Standardised assessment view
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