8mo–20mo8 minFree playQuiet timeRest
Safe Base Snuggle Spot
A short co-regulation routine where the key person stays close, offers a predictable refuge, and supports your child to calm and re-engage. Use only safe, age-appropriate items and supervise closely.
What you'll need
Essentials
- A soft blanket or cushion (for a supervised calm spot)
- A familiar comforter or soft toy
Nice to have
- A chair or quiet corner
- A favourite simple board book
Movement level: false
What you'll do
The 4-step guide, with what to look for at each step, is for signed-in parents.
What this develops
What it practices
- Growing sense of will and determination may result in feelings of anger and frustration which are difficult to handle, e.g. may have tantrums.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Is aware of others’ feelings, for example, looks concerned if hears crying or looks excited if hears a familiar happy voice.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Responds to a few appropriate boundaries, with encouragement and support.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
Where it comes from
- Source
- Development Matters in the EYFS (DfE, 2012)
- Original guidance
- “Make sure the key person stays close by and provides a secure presence and a refuge at times a child may be feeling anxious.”
- License
- Open Government Licence v3.0
- Attribution
- © Crown Copyright 2012 (Development Matters in the EYFS, DfE)