22mo–3y10 minSocial playFamily time
My Turn, Your Turn
A simple, structured turn-taking game that helps your child recognise basic rules for being together with others, especially waiting for a turn, using clear language and short successful cycles.
What you'll need
Essentials
- ball (or rolled-up socks)
- 1 small 'turn token' (e.g., spoon or small cup)
Nice to have
- 2 bowls/cups as goals
- blocks or cups for a turn-taking build
Movement level: low
What you'll do
The 4-step guide, with what to look for at each step, is for signed-in parents.
What this develops
- MilestoneEngages reciprocally with peersHeart· 10mo–22mo· core
- MilestoneTakes turns in simple games with adult supportHeart· 20mo–3.3y· core· Step 2
- MilestoneStops when instructedHeart· 22mo–3y· core· Step 2
- MilestoneWaits for needs or turnsHeart· 2.5y–5y· core· Step 2
- MilestoneJoins other children in playHeart· 2.3y–3.2y· stretch
What it practices
- Interested in others’ play and starting to join in.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Seeks out others to share experiences.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Shows affection and concern for people who are special to them.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- May form a special friendship with another child.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
Where it comes from
- Source
- Development Matters in the EYFS (DfE, 2012)
- Original guidance
- “Help them to recognise and understand the rules for being together with others, such as waiting for a turn.”
- License
- Open Government Licence v3.0
- Attribution
- © Crown Copyright 2012 (Development Matters in the EYFS, DfE)