Observe whether the child: is startled by loud noises
What it looks like
Three ways this behaviour shows up as a child grows. Each level includes everyday moments to watch for.
Emerging
Just starting
Your child is beginning to react to sudden loud sounds, but the response may be small, inconsistent, or only noticeable when the room is quiet and the sound is close.
What you might see
Blinks, pauses, or makes a small body movement after some loud sounds
Reacts more clearly when the loud sound is nearby or unexpected
Expected
On track
Your child is startled by loud noises, such as showing a sudden body movement, blink, pause, or change in expression after an unexpected loud sound.
What you might see
Startles after a sudden loud noise
Shows a quick body jerk, blink, widening of the eyes, or brief cry
Response happens without the parent touching or moving the child
Exceeding
Going further
Your child reacts clearly to loud noises in different everyday settings and then settles with normal comfort, such as being held, spoken to, or given a quieter space.
What you might see
Startles to loud noises across different settings, such as home, car, or outdoors
Recovers after comfort or after the sound stops
Try this at home
Small everyday moments where you can notice this behaviour without setting up anything special.
During normal daily life, notice whether your child startles when there is an unexpected loud sound.
Watch for a blink, sudden body movement, pause, or brief cry after a loud noise.
Do not make loud sounds on purpose; use only sounds that naturally happen around your child.
Where this comes from
The dataset source and any supporting developmental research.
Dataset source
Stenhaug, B., Ram, N., & Frank, M. C. (2021). The Stanford SHQ: A measure of early developmental milestones.
The SHQ item asks parents to observe whether the child is startled by loud noises.
Developmental research
Brazelton, T. B., & Nugent, J. K. (1995). Neonatal Behavioral Assessment Scale (3rd ed.). Mac Keith Press.
Startle and response to sound are standard early observations of infant behavioral and sensory responsiveness.