Observe whether the child: turns to look at someone who is talking to them
What it looks like
Three ways this behaviour shows up as a child grows. Each level includes everyday moments to watch for.
Emerging
Just starting
Your child is beginning to notice a person talking nearby and may turn their eyes or head toward the voice, but the response is still brief, delayed, or easier when the speaker is close.
What you might see
Briefly shifts eyes or head toward a nearby voice after a pause
Turns more often when the speaker is close, familiar, or using a calm clear voice
Expected
On track
Your child turns to look at someone who is talking to them, showing a reliable head or eye turn toward the person’s voice during everyday interaction.
What you might see
Turns head or gaze toward a person who is talking to them
Responds during ordinary moments such as feeding, diapering, or being held
Looks toward the speaker without needing touch or repeated calling
Exceeding
Going further
Your child often turns on their own toward familiar and unfamiliar speakers, keeps looking during the interaction, and does this across different places and positions.
What you might see
Turns toward voices from different directions or in different rooms
Keeps looking at the speaker and may brighten, quiet, or move in response
Try this at home
Small everyday moments where you can notice this behaviour without setting up anything special.
When you talk to your child from beside them, notice whether they turn their eyes or head toward you.
During feeding or diapering, pause and speak gently, then watch whether your child looks toward your face.
Try this with another familiar adult and see whether your child turns toward that person’s voice too.
Where this comes from
The dataset source and any supporting developmental research.
Dataset source
Stenhaug, B., Ram, N., & Frank, M. C. (2021). The Stanford SHQ: A measure of early developmental milestones.
The SHQ item asks parents to observe whether the child turns to look at someone who is talking to them.
Developmental research
Brazelton, T. B., & Nugent, J. K. (1995). Neonatal Behavioral Assessment Scale (3rd ed.). Mac Keith Press.
Early infant assessments commonly include orienting to voices and faces as observable signs of attention and early social responsiveness.