You do not need lots of toys for early play. Your face, voice, touch and closeness are powerful ways to help your baby feel secure and engaged.
→ 4 milestones0mo–6mo
Use a warm, musical voice with clear ups and downs when you talk or sing, because babies learn a lot from watching how your mouth and face move.
→ 3 milestones0mo–6mo
Hold your baby close, face them, and talk warmly so they can watch your face and respond.
→ 4 milestones0mo–6mo
When your baby cries, treat it as communication. Try to work out what they may need, then offer closeness, comfort and a calm response.
→ 2 milestones0mo–3mo
Watch your baby's state before you choose what to do next. Sleepy, settled, fussy and crying cues all call for different responses.
→ 4 milestones0mo–6mo
When your baby starts to fuss, reduce the pace or change what is happening. At night, consider whether hunger may be part of it.
→ 1 milestone0mo–3mo
Treat crying as communication, not misbehaviour. Check basics such as hunger, temperature and nappies, then stay calm while you comfort them.
→ 2 milestones0mo–3mo
Use steady soothing when your baby cries: hold them close, speak gently, stroke their back, hum, sing, rock, walk, offer sucking if appropriate, or try a warm bath.
→ 2 milestones0mo–3mo
Look for signs that your baby needs a break, such as yawning, turning away, closing their eyes, hiccupping, sneezing or bringing up milk. Slow down, stop, move somewhere quieter, or offer sleep or a feed.
→ 2 milestones0mo–6mo
Respond warmly when your baby reaches for you or wants contact. Hold them close, and use skin-to-skin when it works for you.
→ 2 milestones0mo–6mo
Share books, songs and simple talk from the start, even before your baby understands the words. Your familiar voice helps them feel secure and tuned in.
→ 4 milestones0mo–1yr
Bonding does not have to happen all at once. Keep offering small, caring moments, and let your relationship grow at its own pace.
→ 3 milestones0mo–6mo
Use quiet-alert moments for connection: feed, play, talk or simply enjoy being together.
→ 3 milestones0mo–6mo
Keep early interaction brief and responsive. A few good minutes may be enough before your baby needs a rest.
→ 3 milestones0mo–6mo
Use feeding and nappy changes as talking times: describe what you are doing with short, repeated words and let your baby watch your face.
→ 3 milestones0mo–6mo
When you are out, notice what catches your baby's attention, point it out and name it before their focus moves on.
→ 2 milestones0mo–6mo
Talk to your baby while you do everyday tasks nearby, explaining simple things as they happen so your voice becomes part of daily life.
→ 3 milestones0mo–6mo
Speak with your child in the home language or languages you normally use, so they hear rich, familiar communication from the people closest to them.
→ 3 milestones0mo–6mo
Join in with play yourself. Your attention, voice, and responses teach more than a toy used on its own.
→ 5 milestones0mo–1yr
Sing often to your baby, using a lively voice that holds their attention.
→ 3 milestones0mo–1yr
Notice and answer your baby's early sounds and expressions. A smile, sound or look can be your baby's way of starting a tiny conversation.
→ 4 milestones0mo–6mo
Treat your baby's noises, expressions and movements as communication: answer them with words, a smile or a matching action so the exchange feels like a little conversation.
→ 4 milestones0mo–6mo
Talk through everyday care such as feeding, changing, and bathing so your baby hears familiar words during routines.
→ 3 milestones0mo–1yr
Copy your baby's sounds back to them and pause for their response, as if you are having a small conversation.
→ 3 milestones0mo–1yr
Keep dummy use mainly for sleep and aim to phase it out by around 12 months, because babies need free mouth time for sounds and words.
→ 3 milestones0mo–1yr
For tummy time, build up gradually and make it easier with your chest or lap, nearby toys, your voice, or a small towel under the arms.
→ 3 milestones0mo–6mo
Use ordinary household objects for play when they are safe, clean, and too large to swallow.
→ 3 milestones0mo–3yr
Keep tummy time supervised and only do it when your baby is awake and alert.
→ 1 milestone0mo–6mo
Use baby walkers, bouncers, carriers, and seats sparingly, and keep each spell brief so your baby has plenty of free movement time.
→ 2 milestones0mo–2yr
Use feeding time for simple talk: name the food, repeat the word, and connect it to what your baby is eating.
→ 2 milestones6mo–1yr
During bath time, name body parts, toys, and water sounds, and vary your voice so your baby hears playful sound patterns.
→ 4 milestones6mo–1yr
When you are outside, talk about what your baby is looking at and repeat any sounds they try to make.
→ 3 milestones6mo–1yr
Talk with your child in the language or languages your family uses at home.
→ 1 milestone6mo–1yr
From about 6 months, point to things you both see and name them. As your baby gets older, add simple detail such as colour or type.
→ 3 milestones6mo–1yr
When looking at books with a baby, you do not need to read every word. Talk about the pictures and follow what catches their attention.
→ 3 milestones6mo–2yr
Use noisy books and toys thoughtfully to help your toddler practise listening and noticing sounds.
→ 2 milestones6mo–2yr
After you make a sound or action, pause and give your baby time to answer in their own way; continue warmly even if they do not copy yet.
→ 2 milestones6mo–1yr
Pair words with clear gestures, such as waving while greeting or saying goodbye, so your baby can connect meaning with movement.
→ 1 milestone6mo–1yr
For a child with visual impairment, include toys with varied textures they can explore safely by touch and mouth.
→ 1 milestone6mo–1yr
If your baby is not showing any way of moving around by 12 months, ask your health visitor for advice.
→ 1 milestone7mo–1yr
Use everyday routines as language practice by naming objects, actions, and choices again and again across the day.
→ 3 milestones1yr–2yr
Describe sensory details during meals, such as colour, texture, temperature, taste, and sound, using simple words your child can hear often.
→ 2 milestones1yr–2yr
Copy your child’s noises or sound attempts back to them, then wait for another turn so the exchange feels like a little conversation.
→ 2 milestones1yr–1yr 6mo
If you use screens with a child under 2, make it a shared activity where you sit together, talk, and interact rather than leaving them to watch alone.
→ 3 milestones1yr–2yr
Speak with your child in the language or languages your family uses at home; regular warm conversation matters more than choosing only one language.
→ 2 milestones1yr–2yr
If you are worried about your child’s talking or understanding, ask a health visitor, nursery key worker, or speech and language service for advice.
→ 3 milestones1yr–2yr
When a toddler says a word unclearly, answer with the word in its full form without scolding or making them feel wrong.
→ 2 milestones1yr–1yr 6mo
Use the language that feels natural in your family, including more than one language if that is how your home works.
→ 3 milestones1yr–3yr
Follow what has caught your child’s attention, then talk about it in short, warm comments. Their curiosity gives you natural chances to build conversation.
→ 3 milestones1yr–2yr
Offer simple choices, such as between two foods or objects, and give your child time to show or say what they want.
→ 2 milestones1yr–1yr 6mo
Offer simple choices, such as two foods or two objects, and name both options clearly.
→ 2 milestones1yr–2yr
Use libraries, story sessions, local activities, or early years staff when you want more ideas for language-rich play.
→ 3 milestones1yr–2yr
Use ordinary moments with your toddler to describe what they see, hear, touch, smell, or feel.
→ 3 milestones1yr–3yr
As you dress your child, keep your language simple and linked to the action, such as naming arms, legs, clothes, and what happens next.
→ 3 milestones1yr–2yr
From around 18 months, repeat useful words during routines so your child hears them several times in context.
→ 2 milestones1yr–2yr
Ask everyone who cares for your child to use broadly similar routines and rules for sleep, meals, behaviour, and screen time.
→ 2 milestones1yr–2yr
Join your toddler's pretend play when they invite you, such as accepting an imaginary drink or caring for a toy together.
→ 3 milestones1yr–3yr
Wait for signs your child is ready before teaching a new everyday skill, and pause for a few weeks if it becomes frustrating.
→ 2 milestones1yr–2yr
Expect new independence skills to come and go for a while. A child may use a spoon or potty one day and want more help another day, especially when tired.
→ 2 milestones1yr–2yr
Keep expectations realistic and allow extra time for daily tasks instead of expecting quick or perfect results.
→ 2 milestones1yr–2yr
Keep unsafe or fragile items out of reach, because young children are still learning what is safe to touch and where they can run.
→ 1 milestone1yr–2yr
Let your child see you doing everyday self-care, such as washing, brushing teeth, and using the toilet, so they have actions to copy.
→ 1 milestone1yr–2yr
Give toddlers regular chances to walk, toddle, and move freely when it is safe, including short walks during outings.
→ 1 milestone1yr 6mo–2yr
Aim for plenty of movement across the day, using short bursts of walking, running, climbing, jumping, or dancing.
→ 1 milestone1yr 6mo–2yr
After your child can walk, aim for lots of movement spread across the day rather than one long burst.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–5yr
Break up long stretches in a buggy, car seat, highchair, television, or tablet time with chances to move.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–5yr
Stay active with your child when you can, because seeing you enjoy movement helps them treat activity as normal and fun.
→ 3 milestones1yr 6mo–5yr
Keep instructions short and concrete, such as asking for one familiar action at a time.
→ 1 milestone1yr 6mo–2yr
Limit daily screen time for toddlers, and choose play, stories, and conversation as the main language practice.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–3yr
Use clear, steady limits and briefly explain the reason, especially around danger.
→ 3 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr
Ask your toddler to find body parts such as their nose, ear, or foot, and give them time to point.
→ 1 milestone1yr 6mo–2yr
As your baby becomes a toddler, help them with big feelings by staying close, naming emotions and offering steady support.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr
When your toddler has a strong reaction, treat it as a sign that they need help with feelings they cannot yet explain. Stay close and guide them through it instead of expecting them to calm themselves straight away.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr
Before trying to teach or correct, help your child settle: use a calm voice, name the feeling, and reassure them that they are safe.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr
Once your child is less upset, reconnect with warmth, such as staying nearby or offering comfort. Show that you still care even when their behaviour was difficult.
→ 1 milestone1yr 6mo–2yr
Save explanations and limits for after your toddler is calm. Then you can acknowledge the feeling while making the boundary clear, such as anger being allowed but hurting others not being allowed.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr
Notice and praise the behaviour you want to see again with warmth, attention, and affection.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr
Put simple feeling words onto what your child seems to be experiencing, such as happy, sad or angry. Hearing these labels in real moments helps them learn how to talk about feelings later.
→ 1 milestone1yr 6mo–2yr
Join your child's play by noticing what they are already interested in. Talk about their actions and objects so they hear words linked to their own ideas.
→ 3 milestones2yr–3yr
Use mealtimes for choice-making and naming. Offer two foods, wait for a look, point, or word, then model the word for the food they chose.
→ 3 milestones2yr–3yr
Mix object words, action words, and describing words into everyday talk so your child hears richer sentence patterns.
→ 3 milestones2yr–3yr
Keep the conversation moving without turning every mistake into a correction. Give your child natural examples of how words fit together.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
When your child says one word, add a little more detail back to them, such as adding size, action, sound, or place.
→ 3 milestones2yr–3yr
Chat about what has already happened and what is coming next, so your child hears time order in ordinary routines.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Share picture books by naming what you both see and talking about what the objects are used for.
→ 3 milestones2yr–3yr
Talk while you are out together, especially about whatever catches your child's attention. Add extra words to what they notice so they hear short sentences.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Use home languages with your child. The languages your family speaks are good languages for talking, play, and daily routines.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Use the 2 to 2-and-a-half-year review, nursery progress review, health visitor, nursery key worker, or speech and language service if you want advice about your child's talking.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
When your 2-year-old uses a short phrase, answer with a slightly longer sentence that keeps their meaning.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Say your child's name before asking a question, then wait long enough for them to answer.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Turn off background TV or radio when you want your child to listen and talk with you.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Watch programmes with your child when screens are used, and talk together about what is happening.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Use meaningful sound effects in real moments and picture play, such as a sound for a dropped object or an animal noise.
→ 1 milestone2yr–3yr
Show related items and name the group they belong to, such as several different things that are all toys.
→ 1 milestone2yr–3yr
Praise your child's ideas in play so they feel confident to keep inventing and talking.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Follow your toddler's interests in play and describe what they are doing instead of taking over the game.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Let your child help with simple everyday jobs and talk together about the choices, actions, and preferences involved.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Talk with your child while doing chores together, naming actions and objects as you shop, cook, clean, or tidy.
→ 2 milestones2yr–3yr
Talk about feelings during the day and in play, using simple words for emotions as they come up.
→ 1 milestone2yr–3yr
Talk with your child during ordinary parts of the day, including what they are doing and what happened to each of you. These everyday chats help them practise longer sentences and conversation turns.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr
Follow what your child notices when you are out, even if they show it by looking or pointing rather than speaking. Add simple comments and questions to turn their interest into a conversation.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr
Ask questions that have many possible answers, such as what your child likes or what they might do tomorrow. Give them time to think and answer in their own words.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr
Use the language or languages your family speaks at home when chatting with your child. Rich conversation in familiar family languages supports communication development.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr
If you are worried about your child’s speech or language, ask your health visitor, nursery key worker, school nurse, or local speech and language therapy service for advice. Extra support can be arranged when needed.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr
When you want your child to notice something new, point it out clearly and pair it with a sound or short comment. This helps them shift attention and listen for details around them.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr
Use everyday problems as talking opportunities, such as wondering together what to do when something is missing. Encourage your child to suggest ideas before you step in.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr
Read familiar books more than once and pause so your child can remember, guess, or fill in what comes next. Let their interests guide which books and pages you spend time on.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr