Build talking, singing, and reading into ordinary moments, even before your baby understands the words.
→ 3 milestones0mo–2mo
Hold, cuddle, and comfort your baby often. At this age, responding to closeness and comfort needs helps your baby feel secure.
→ 3 milestones0mo–2mo
When you are with your baby, make room to notice them by keeping screens from pulling your attention away.
→ 3 milestones1mo–2mo
When your baby makes little sounds, answer with warmth: smile, use an animated voice, and pause so they can respond in their own way.
→ 3 milestones1mo–2mo
When your baby makes a sound, answer warmly with your face and voice. Pause so they have a chance to make another sound back.
→ 4 milestones2mo–4mo
Keep screens off except for video calls with family or close friends. Babies learn most from live talking, play, touch, and shared attention with people.
→ 3 milestones2mo–4mo
Talk, read, and sing during everyday care, even before your baby understands the words. Hearing your voice often builds the foundation for later understanding and speech.
→ 3 milestones2mo–4mo
For now, feed only breast milk or formula unless your baby's clinician gives different advice. Most babies are not ready for water, other drinks, or solid foods until around 6 months.
→ 1 milestone2mo–4mo
Give your baby chances to move and interact across the day. Use swings, strollers, and bouncy seats for limited stretches rather than as the main place your baby spends awake time.
→ 4 milestones2mo–4mo
Turn your baby's smiles and sounds into a little conversation: smile back, pause, and echo their noises so they learn that communication goes both ways.
→ 3 milestones4mo–6mo
Share books or picture pages every day. Talk about what you see, and when your baby babbles, answer as if they are joining the story.
→ 2 milestones4mo–6mo
During walks or routines, point to interesting sights and tell your baby what they are called, such as vehicles, plants, or animals.
→ 1 milestone4mo–6mo
Sing often and play music as part of daily routines, giving your baby rhythm, voice, and repeated sounds to listen to.
→ 2 milestones4mo–6mo
Keep screens out of your baby's routine except for video chats with family or close friends. At this age, learning comes mainly from real people talking, playing, and responding.
→ 1 milestone4mo–6mo
When your baby babbles, copy the sound back, then attach it to a simple real word. This shows that their sounds can become communication.
→ 2 milestones4mo–9mo
Ask your baby's doctor when to introduce solid foods and which foods are choking hazards. Keep breast milk or formula as the main source of nutrition for now.
→ 2 milestones4mo–6mo
When your baby focuses on something, join their attention: point to it, name it, and add a few simple words about it.
→ 1 milestone4mo–6mo
Name the feeling you think your child is showing and pair it with a clear limit. Use your face, voice, and words to show understanding, then redirect to something your child can do instead.
→ 2 milestones6mo–2yr
Share books by pointing to pictures and naming what you see, even if you are not reading every word. Treat the page as a conversation starter.
→ 2 milestones6mo–9mo
Use the same gesture and word together in everyday routines, such as waving when someone leaves. You can also model a simple sign for common wants before spoken words are ready.
→ 3 milestones6mo–1yr
Use quick, calm redirection when your baby heads toward something off-limits. Move them or offer a safe object, and save a firm 'no' for real danger without yelling, hitting, or long explanations.
→ 2 milestones9mo–1yr 3mo
Point out things you notice together, such as vehicles, animals, or people. This helps your baby learn that pointing can be used to share attention, not only to ask for something.
→ 3 milestones1yr–1yr 6mo
When your baby does something rough or unsafe, show the gentle action you want instead and warmly notice it when they try. For example, guide their hand to touch softly, then give affection or praise.
→ 2 milestones1yr–1yr 3mo
When your baby makes a sound or says part of a word, answer as if they are communicating and add a little more language. Turn a sound like 'ta' into a clear word or short description.
→ 2 milestones1yr–1yr 3mo
When your baby points, put words to what they seem to want and answer the request. If they try to say the word, respond warmly and repeat the clear word back.
→ 3 milestones1yr–1yr 3mo
When your child uses a partial word or sound, treat it as communication and gently model the full word back. Add one short piece of meaning so your child hears how the word is used.
→ 2 milestones1yr–1yr 6mo
Talk or sing through everyday routines so your baby hears words connected to real actions. Short repeated phrases during care tasks help them link language with familiar objects and routines.
→ 3 milestones1yr–1yr 6mo
When your child points to something, name it and pause before giving it. If your child makes a sound or word attempt, respond warmly and say the name again.
→ 4 milestones1yr–1yr 6mo
Make your home easier to explore safely by moving sharp, fragile, poisonous, or breakable items out of reach and locking up medicines and cleaners. Keep the Poison Help number, 800-222-1222, where caregivers can find it quickly.
→ 2 milestones1yr–1yr 3mo
Keep screens for video calls only at this age, and put your own device away during shared time when possible. Children learn more from back-and-forth talking, playing, and responsive attention.
→ 4 milestones1yr 3mo–1yr 6mo
Ask short, concrete questions about things your child is looking at, holding, or hearing. Give them time to answer with a word, sound, gesture, or look.
→ 3 milestones1yr 3mo–1yr 6mo
Notice the behavior you want more of and name it warmly, such as helping, tidying, or gentle hands. Give less attention to small behaviors you do not want to reinforce when everyone is safe.
→ 3 milestones1yr 3mo–1yr 6mo
Keep sleep and meal routines steady, and sit with your child during meals and snacks when you can. Predictable routines help your child know what happens next.
→ 3 milestones1yr 3mo–1yr 6mo
Keep sleep and meal routines steady, and make bedtime quiet and predictable with pajamas, toothbrushing, and one or two books. Toddlers in this range usually need about 11 to 14 total hours of sleep across night sleep and naps.
→ 1 milestone1yr 3mo–1yr 6mo
Keep sleep and meal times predictable, and make bedtime quiet and familiar with pajamas, toothbrushing, and a short reading routine.
→ 2 milestones1yr 3mo–2yr 6mo
Invite your child into small real-life jobs, such as bringing shoes, putting snacks into a bag, or dropping socks into a basket. Keep the task simple and useful, with just enough help for success.
→ 3 milestones1yr 3mo–1yr 6mo
Give two clear choices when either option works for you, such as choosing between two shirts. This lets your child practice making decisions without becoming overwhelmed.
→ 2 milestones1yr 3mo–1yr 6mo
Offer practice with an open cup and spoon during meals, expecting spills as part of learning. Stay close and keep portions small so your child can try again easily.
→ 4 milestones1yr 3mo–2yr
Use everyday moments to talk about feelings and kind responses. If another child seems upset, help your child notice it and suggest a simple caring action.
→ 2 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr
Stay close during play with other children and help your child practice simple social steps, such as taking a turn, offering a toy, or using a word to ask.
→ 3 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr 6mo
Talk out loud about other people’s feelings and help your child choose a kind response, such as offering comfort or help.
→ 3 milestones1yr 6mo–4yr
When your child says a word unclearly, answer with the fuller, clearer version of what they seem to mean. This gives them a model without turning it into a correction.
→ 3 milestones1yr 6mo–2yr 6mo
At meals, offer healthy choices and let your child decide whether to eat and how much. Expect appetite and food preferences to vary from day to day.
→ 1 milestone1yr 6mo–2yr
Invite your child to help with mealtime setup by carrying safe, light items like napkins or plastic cups. Name the help they gave so they feel included.
→ 2 milestones2yr–4yr
Give short directions with two or three linked steps, using familiar tasks such as getting shoes and a coat.
→ 2 milestones2yr–4yr
Notice and name the behavior you want repeated, especially kind or cooperative moments, so your child knows what worked.
→ 2 milestones2yr 6mo–3yr
Coach early peer play by showing your child how to offer a turn, wait for a turn, and use words when they want something.
→ 3 milestones2yr 6mo–3yr
Keep screen viewing brief and watch with your child when you do use it; prioritize talking, playing, and real interaction during the day.
→ 2 milestones2yr 6mo–3yr
Eat together when you can, serve the shared family meal, and keep screens away so conversation and connection stay part of mealtime.
→ 3 milestones2yr 6mo–3yr
When your child grabs, refuses, or gets stuck, model the words they can use. Give them a simple phrase such as asking for a turn, help, or another choice.
→ 3 milestones2yr 6mo–5yr
While reading, pause to ask simple who, what, and where questions about the pictures or story.
→ 2 milestones2yr 6mo–3yr
When stopping an unsafe or unwanted behavior, give a short reason and offer two acceptable alternatives. Keep the limit clear and the next action easy to choose.
→ 3 milestones2yr 6mo–4yr
Offer two or three acceptable choices, such as snack options or clothes, so your child can practice deciding within clear limits.
→ 1 milestone2yr 6mo–3yr
Name feelings in the moment and give your child simple calming choices, such as slow breathing, holding a comfort object, or moving to a quiet safe space.
→ 2 milestones3yr–4yr
Keep a small number of rules clear and concrete. If your child forgets, show the expected action, then notice and warmly acknowledge it when they use the rule later.
→ 3 milestones3yr–5yr
When your child gets stuck, guide them with questions instead of solving it right away. Help them name the problem, think of a few possible fixes, try one, and switch plans if it does not work.
→ 2 milestones3yr–4yr
Include your child in simple meal tasks, such as rinsing produce or stirring, while you supervise closely.
→ 3 milestones3yr–5yr
Give specific attention to the behavior you want repeated. Name the positive action when you see it, especially sharing, helping, waiting, or gentle play.
→ 2 milestones3yr–5yr
Read together and ask your child to describe the picture or guess what might happen next. When they answer, invite one more detail so they stretch their thinking and language.
→ 4 milestones3yr–5yr
Model language that is just a little more advanced than your child's. Repeat their idea back with fuller words and a longer sentence.
→ 3 milestones3yr–5yr
Give your child real chances to handle small self-care jobs, such as making the bed, fastening clothing, or pouring water, and praise the effort without correcting every detail.
→ 2 milestones4yr–5yr
When your child tells you about their play, ask open questions that invite more thinking, such as why they chose something or how their idea works.
→ 2 milestones4yr–5yr
Name feelings in daily life and in stories. Talk about what a person or character might feel and what may have caused that feeling.
→ 2 milestones4yr–5yr
Use everyday time words often. Talk about what happened yesterday, what is happening today, and what will happen tomorrow.
→ 1 milestone4yr–5yr