“Does {child_name} bring {his_her} little successes to you — showing you something {he_she} built, or wanting you to watch a new trick?”
Follow-up: “Does {he_she} ask you to watch with words or just by pulling you over?”
Not yet
Doesn't invite you to share {his_her} discoveries
Emerging
Occasionally shows you things, but doesn't wait for a reaction
Developing
Shows things and waits for your response
Secure
Regularly calls out 'look!' or similar and wants your full attention
These moments feel small but they are social skill-building at its finest — responding warmly fuels more of them.