Friends and Feelings
Parent observes social-emotional and self-care milestones across play and daily routines: sharing, empathy, imitation, cooperative play, self-regulation, curiosity, persisting at tasks, attention-switching, dressing, toileting awareness, hygiene, and asking about absent people. Covers twenty-two social-emotional, independence, and play milestones at 28-38mo.
Opens a guided voice session in TogetherTime.
What you'll need
No special setup. Think about your child's typical behaviour over the past week — that's the data we're working with.
How it works
- 1~120s
Let's start with social behaviour. Think about the past week. Does your child involve other children in play — wait for a turn, invite someone to join, or follow what another child is doing? Does your child imitate adults — copying what you do, washing dishes, using a phone, sweeping? Does your child show sympathy when someone is sad or hurt — coming over, saying something, offering a hug? Does your child share things — toys, food, objects — sometimes spontaneously? Tell me your honest picture of each.
Watch for: Child involves others in play
- 2~90s
Three more social-emotional observations. First: can your child concentrate on one thing — a puzzle, a drawing, a game — without being distracted for 3-5 minutes? And when your child needs to switch from one activity to another, does they transition well, or is there always a big upset? Second: is your child mostly curious about new things, or more cautious? Does they ask about things they doesn't know? Third: in pretend play, does your child include dolls, stuffed animals, or other people as characters? Does they make toys 'talk' or act out roles? Tell me each.
Watch for: Child concentrates on one task for several minutes
- 3~90s
Final turn — daily independence. Think about dressing, toileting, and hygiene. Does your child help with dressing — pull up trousers, push an arm through a sleeve, pull off their own clothes? Any part of hand-washing and drying independently? Can your child tell you when they is hungry or thirsty? Does your child tell you before needing the toilet — any warning? And: does your child ask about familiar people when they're not present — 'Where is Daddy?' 'Is Grandma coming?' Tell me each.
Watch for: Child removes an item of clothing independently
What this develops
- MilestoneDoes the child imitate others' behaviors (e.g., washing...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child sometimes share things (e.g., food,...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneIs the child kind to younger children (e.g.,...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child involve others in play (i.e.,...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child play by pretending objects are...physicalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child show sympathy or look concerned...physicalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child show curiosity to learn new...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneCan the child concentrate on one task (e.g.,...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneCan the child indicate when he/she needs to...physicalprimary
- MilestoneCan the child remove an item of clothing...physicalprimary
- MilestoneCan the child tell you when he/she is...physicalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child usually finish an activity he/she...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneCan the child easily switch back and forth...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child ask about familiar people other...physicalprimary
- MilestoneCan the child dress him/herself (e.g., put on...physicalprimary
- MilestoneIf you ask the child to give you...physicalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child usually put objects or toys...physicalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child frequently act impulsively or without...social emotionalprimary
- MilestoneDoes the child sometimes save things like candy...physicalprimary
- MilestoneShows affection towards friends without being asked to do sosocial emotionalprimary
- MilestoneShows concern for a friend who is cryingsocial emotionalprimary
- MilestoneUnderstands that some things are {his/hers} and some are notsocial emotionalprimary
- MilestoneSeparates easily from mom and dadsocial emotionalprimary
- MilestoneCan unbutton {his/her} clothessocial emotionalprimary
- MilestoneCan pull off {his/her} pantsphysicalprimary
- MilestoneIncludes other people or pets while playing make-believeThinkingprimary
- MilestoneMakes {his/her} toys "talk" while playing make-believeThinkingprimary
- MilestoneWashes and dries hands independentlysocial emotionalprimary
- MilestonePuts on clothing with minimal helpsocial emotionalprimary
- MilestoneCan the child fasten and unfasten buttons without...physicalprimary