22mo–3y12 minFamily timeSelf-careCommunity time
My Family, Your Family: Routine Share
A short strengths-based routine share where you notices possible cultural differences in expectations, invites two-way conversation with another caregiver, and helps your child experience consistent, respectful messages across home and care.
What you'll need
Essentials
- one everyday routine to talk about (e.g., snack, toileting, greetings, clothing, bedtime)
- paper and pen (or notes app) to record 2–3 simple agreed steps
Nice to have
- a photo of the routine items (e.g., cup, potty, coat) to support shared understanding
- translation support if needed (trusted interpreter, bilingual adult, or simple picture gestures)
Movement level: false
What you'll do
The 4-step guide, with what to look for at each step, is for signed-in parents.
What this develops
What it practices
- Helps with clothing, e.g. puts on hat, unzips zipper on jacket, takes off unbuttoned shirt.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Clearly communicates their need for potty or toilet.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Beginning to recognise danger and seeks support of significant adults for help.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Drinks well without spilling.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
Where it comes from
- Source
- Development Matters in the EYFS (DfE, 2012)
- Original guidance
- “Be aware of cultural differences in attitudes and expectations. Continue to share and explain practice with parents, ensuring a two-way communication using interpreter support where necessary.”
- License
- Open Government Licence v3.0
- Attribution
- © Crown Copyright 2012 (Development Matters in the EYFS, DfE)