0mo–11mo10 minFamily timeSelf-careQuiet time
Ask, Then Copy
A short check-in to learn the imitation games your child already enjoys with parents, then use the same familiar cues immediately to support comfort and connection.
What you'll need
Essentials
- a notepad and pen (or a notes app) to capture the favourite game
Nice to have
- a comfort item (blanket, muslin, or small soft toy)
- a baby-safe mirror (held by an adult)
Movement level: low
What you'll do
The 4-step guide, with what to look for at each step, is for signed-in parents.
What this develops
- MilestoneResponds to a speaking personHeart· 0mo–14mo· core
- MilestoneCopies simple gestures or actionsMind· 6mo–2.3y· core· Step 3
- MilestoneRecognizes familiar caregiverHeart· 0mo–10mo· stretch
- MilestoneImitates facial movementsMind· 4mo–8mo· stretch· Step 3
- MilestoneCopies sounds or wordsMind· 10mo–20mo· stretch· Step 3
What it practices
- Gazes at faces and copies facial movements. e.g. sticking out tongue, opening mouth and widening eyes.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Responds when talked to, for example, moves arms and legs, changes facial expression, moves body and makes mouth movements.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Recognises and is most responsive to main carer’s voice: face brightens, activity increases when familiar carer appears.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
- Enjoys the company of others and seeks contact with others from birth.Observable behaviour from Development Matters
Where it comes from
- Source
- Development Matters in the EYFS (DfE, 2012)
- Original guidance
- “Discover from parents the copying games that their babies enjoy, and use these as the basis for your play.”
- License
- Open Government Licence v3.0
- Attribution
- © Crown Copyright 2012 (Development Matters in the EYFS, DfE)