Pre-Potty Cues Detective
Parent observes toddler's subtle physical and behavioral signals that indicate a need to urinate, building awareness for potty training readiness. The agent coaches the parent to notice body language, facial expressions, and behavioral changes that precede urination — helping parent and child establish early communication about bodily needs.
Opens a guided voice session in TogetherTime.
What you'll need
Toddler playing or engaged in quiet activity. Parent should be nearby but not actively interacting — observing from a slight distance. Best done during typical awake hours when toddler might need to urinate. No materials needed.
How it works
- 1~60s
Start by just watching your child's body. Look for any physical signs: Does they suddenly stop playing and stand still? Maybe they crosses their legs, squats down, or holds their diaper area. Some toddlers get a certain look on their face — a concentrated expression or a distant gaze. Watch for about a minute and tell me: What physical signals do you notice that might indicate your child is aware of something happening in their body?
Watch for: Toddler shows physical signs of being aware of the need to urinate — stopping activity, changing posture, touching diaper area.
- 2~60s
Now let's focus on your child's face. When you notice those physical signals, look closely at their expression. Does they get a concentrated look — maybe eyebrows furrowed or lips pressed together? Some toddlers get a distant, 'zoned out' expression as they focus inward on the sensation. Others might look surprised or concerned. Watch for facial changes that accompany the physical signals. What expressions do you see?
Watch for: Toddler shows facial expressions that indicate awareness of bodily need and may attempt to communicate it.
- 3~90s
For our last observation, let's look for patterns and communication attempts. Does your child do the same thing each time? Maybe they always goes to a certain corner or holds onto furniture. More importantly, does they look at you or try to get your attention? Some toddlers will come over, pull at their diaper, or make a specific sound. Watch for any attempt — however small — to involve you in what they's experiencing. What do you notice?
Watch for: Toddler shows consistent patterns in pre-potty behavior and may attempt to communicate the need to parent.