Introduction to the Bedtime Lovey
Parent introduces a special comfort item (lovey) to baby during bedtime routine, observing how baby interacts with the object and responds to its presence. The agent coaches the parent to notice object attachment, self-soothing behaviors, and emotional regulation as baby begins to form bonds with transitional objects.
Opens a guided voice session in TogetherTime.
What you'll need
Baby in a calm, pre-bedtime state — perhaps after bath or feeding. Have the chosen lovey nearby. Environment should be dimly lit and peaceful. Best done as part of regular bedtime routine.
How it works
- 1~30s
Start by holding the lovey close to you for a moment, then gently bring it near your child. Let them see it, touch it, maybe even smell it if it's been near you. Say something like, 'This is your special bedtime friend.' Watch how your child responds. Does they reach for it? Look at it curiously? Show any signs of interest or comfort? Tell me what you notice.
Watch for: Baby shows interest in or positive response to the comfort object during introduction.
- 2~40s
Now, as you continue with bedtime — maybe while rocking, singing, or reading — keep the lovey nearby. Place it where your child can touch it, or hold it against them gently. Notice if your child uses the lovey to help calm down. Does they hold it while listening to your voice? Rub it against their face? Show any self-soothing behaviors with the object?
Watch for: Baby uses the comfort object to help regulate emotions or calm during bedtime routine.
- 3~30s
As bedtime winds down, observe your child's overall emotional state with the lovey nearby. Does they seem more settled? Make eye contact with you while holding it? Show any signs that the object is becoming part of their emotional world — maybe a content sigh, relaxed body, or gentle exploration? Tell me about your child's emotional response.
Watch for: Baby engages emotionally with the comfort object, showing it is becoming meaningful in social-emotional context.