Values Explorer — What Matters Most to You?
Tween identifies personal values through scenarios involving competing priorities, ranks them, and explains reasoning. Parent acts as non-judgmental sounding board.
Opens a guided voice session in TogetherTime.
What you'll need
No materials needed. Quiet space for honest conversation. Parent should be prepared to listen without steering.
How it works
- 1~45s
Here's the first one: Imagine your best friend asks you to help them move house this Saturday. But you also have a big test on Monday that you haven't studied for yet. You can only do one. Which do you choose, and why? you, just let your child think and answer — then tell me what they said.
Watch for: values_articulation
- 2~40s
Now let's name some values. I'll list a few — your child should pick the three that matter most: honesty, loyalty, kindness, achievement, fairness, freedom, creativity, family, courage, fun. you, ask your child to pick three and put them in order. What did they choose?
Watch for: values_prioritization
- 3~45s
Last one — this is the hardest. Ask your child: 'What would you do if being honest meant hurting a friend's feelings?' This puts two good things against each other. How does they navigate it?
Watch for: values_conflict_resolution