Skill· 0mo–6mo· 2 min
Soothe and Settle
Parent observes baby's self-soothing behaviours — thumb-sucking, head-turning, hand-clasping, gaze aversion — during a gentle transition from stimulation to calm. The agent coaches the parent to recognise these early self-regulation strategies as important character-building foundations.
Free to do together whenever you like.
What you'll need
Baby should be awake and mildly stimulated (not overtired or hungry). A quiet room is ideal. No special materials needed — just observation.
How it works
The 3-step guide, with what to look for at each step, is for signed-in parents.
What this develops
- MilestoneSeeks caregiver comfortHeart· 0mo–12mo· core· Step 3
- MilestoneBrings hands to mouthBody· 2mo–4mo· core· Step 1
- MilestoneUses familiar adult to share feelings such as excitement or pleasure, and for ‘emotional refuelling’ when feeling tired, stressed or frustrated.Heart· 0mo–11mo· stretch· Step 3
- MilestoneThe beginnings of understanding of People and communities lie in early attachment and other relationships. See Personal, Social and Emotional Development and Communication and Language.Heart· 0mo–11mo· stretch· Step 3
- MilestoneHands together at midlineBody· 3mo–6mo· stretch· Step 1
Visual example
Coming soon