16mo–2.2y11 minSelf-careChore timeToileting
Hook and Wash Routine: Two-Step Self-Care
A predictable two-step routine (hang item on a hook + wash hands/face) that helps your child practise looking after themselves with simple language, consistent sequencing, and gradually faded adult support.
What you'll need
Essentials
- a low hook or reachable place to put an item (peg, drawer handle, basket, or chair back)
- a cloth or towel
- access to water (sink, bowl, or bath edge)
Nice to have
- soap (if appropriate for skin)
- a small cup of water for drinking after washing
Movement level: low
What you'll do
The 4-step guide, with what to look for at each step, is for signed-in parents.
What this develops
- MilestoneSupported routine participationMind· 8mo–20mo· core· Step 2
- MilestoneParticipates in hygiene routinesBody· 15mo–2.3y· core
- MilestoneBegins self-care independenceBody· 22mo–3y· core
- MilestoneWashes and dries hands through the steps, promptedBody· 2y–3.5y· stretch· Step 3
- MilestoneHelps with simple household tasksHeart· 18mo–3y· stretch
- MilestoneFollows visually supported instructionsMind· 8mo–18mo· stretch· Step 1
What it practices
Where it comes from
- Source
- Development Matters in the EYFS (DfE, 2012)
- Original guidance
- “Establish routines that enable children to look after themselves, e.g. putting their clothes and aprons on hooks or washing themselves.”
- License
- Open Government Licence v3.0
- Attribution
- © Crown Copyright 2012 (Development Matters in the EYFS, DfE)